Wednesday, November 8, 2017

For the Curious - Questions for Tom and Cal

Let's give the men another turn today. Today's questions are for Tom and then one for Cal. These two men are very much alike. They may not be close in age, but in the belief that a firm hand is how to keep your wife safe and protected they are side by side.



For Tom:  do you think Cassie will ever learn to mind you?

I think she minds me about as well as she can. I can’t say I would want much to change. I love her free spirit. I definitely want her safe, but I’d hate to see her sitting in front of a TV sixteen hours a day and doing nothing. She’s perfect the way she is.

What concerns you most about Cassie and her pranks?  Did you ever find one of her pranks truly funny, yet punished her anyway?

Many of her pranks are funny and I don’t mind them one bit as long as they’re safe. But that doesn’t mean she isn’t going to get her bottom warmed over them. She may enjoy them, but she’ll still have to pay the consequence.

Hey Tom, do you ever think Cassie needs to spank you?


To give you a concise answer, no. I’m guessing you are not in a domestic discipline relationship. For the most part there is one HOH and that's usually, but certainly not always, the man. Completely fair or not, that’s the way it is. I think Cassie would agree with me, but I’ll let her answer for herself.

No! I would not want to spank Tom – not that I haven’t threatened at times. Just the ides makes me feel squeamish. He is my husband and my protector. I love the balance we have and I don’t want it to change.

Cassie


For Cal, when did you find out your parents were in a spanking relationship and how did you find out? What was your reaction? 

I don’t remember ‘finding out’, I just knew. My father is a great man. He is the head of our family and that was never questioned.  He is firm, kind, loving and understanding. His most common discipline tool when we boys were growing up was talking with us. It really worked. But there were times when things went too far and we were taken to the woodshed – yes, we actually had one. He kept a paddle out there and would occasionally use his belt. As I grew up through comments, teasing and certain looks, I realized that not only we four boys, but my mother was also included under this umbrella of love and discipline. Knowing how much my father loved us all, especially my mother, it seemed natural and right to me.

In my opinion, Lane and the twins didn’t see the inside of the woodshed nearly enough. 

13 comments:

  1. Love the answers PK, Tom's answers are so "Tom" lol.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. He does have his own way of looking at things.

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  2. Great answers and I'm with Roz, very Tom answers.
    --Baker

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    1. I think his love for Cassie keeps coming through.

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  3. Always love to hear from Tom. He doesn't budge an inch, and that is probably why I love him.

    Couldn't help laughing that Cassie had to put in her 2 cents.

    Finished Cassie's fourth book last night in my anticipation of the 10th one. Hope to finish #9 by November 16th!

    Ella Loves Cassie

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    1. So glad you love Cassie. As she would put it, she loves you right back. You know Cassie is right there reading over his shoulder.

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  4. I love that Tom is happy with Cassie just as she is. The fact that it's so comfortable and natural to them both shows that this life of theirs is in no way abusive as Sue used to think (and Lily isn't so sure about). I'm so excited to see more of them in the next book. They're perfect together and such fun!

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    1. Tom does adore his wife, no doubt. There has never been abuse as Cassie and, as you say, Sue can now attest to. Lily may take more convincing.

      Are you getting my emails? I had a couple of questions for you.

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  5. Even if they hadn't 'signed' them, I would have known which answers belonged to which man. LOL Thanks for sharing, PK.

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

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    1. I'm glad you can recognize their 'voices.'

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  6. What a great interview - I love hearing the man's side of TTWD. :-)

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    1. I always wonder what they're thinking too. Thanks for coming by.

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  7. Loved hearing from Tom and Cal, PK! :) Two good men, who love their women, and spank them too!

    Enjoyed Cassie's take on who the spankee is in her marriage. Can't wait for the coming book! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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