F is for fantasy

 I’ve lived on fantasies all my life. Before I was old enough for sexual fantasies, I just called it daydreaming. I enjoyed living in my head and I know I used to do it too much, I often still do. I’ve found that the very best thing about fantasies is that if you have a willing partner, they can often come true.

My greatest piece of advice, don’t do what my husband sometimes fusses at me about, “You had to wait and tell me all this as I was in my mid-fifties, you couldn’t have shared while I was in my prime?”  I wish I’d shared earlier, but then we might not have had that wonderful spark we needed as we were adjusting to the empty nest. Maybe all things just work out in their own time.